Say if you were to do something in your spare time you want to. Would you then want to take a risk by letting someone you don't know and also do not know if is terribad or a hidden star(figure out the obvious one). That's the mindset people have and it is by no means unfair. Getting into a game this late is bound to have you be behind. If you're truly into it pvp you'll have at least some glad rank or commander which could get you into some new HA gvg guild where you can have your chances of proving yourself good enough to be on the team.